opposites attract
Difference draws together
Opposites attract expresses the idea that people with contrasting personalities or traits are drawn to each other romantically or socially.
The phrase comes from magnetism, where opposite poles pull together.
It's often invoked to explain unlikely pairings: They're so different—I guess opposites attract.
Whether the principle holds in real relationships remains debatable.
- meet-cuteContrived charming first encounter
- rom comHumorous love story genre
- enemies to loversRomance from mutual hostility
- love triangleThree-person romantic entanglement
- forbidden loveRomance society prohibits
slow burn · unrequited love · magnetism · compatibility · balance · yin-yang · night and day · oil and water · fire and ice · contrast · complementarity · dipole · diversity · ionic bonding · paradox · polarity · push and pull · star-crossed lovers
- common sayingsproverbs, idioms, cliches, maxims, adages
- romancelove story, amor, love, boyfriend, courting
- conventional wisdomearly bird, apple a day, nice guys finish last, patience, good things come
- rom-comrom-com, romantic comedy, meet cute, meet-cute, love triangle
- Romance Clicheslove at first sight, happily ever after, soulmate, true love, meant to be
- romance fictionlove stories, romance novel, romance novels, contemporary romance, romantic fiction
opposites attractassortative mating
Pairing by shared traits
birds of a feather · common ground · shared values · kindred spirits · soul mates
opposites attractbirds of a feather
Those with shared characteristics
tribalism · echo chamber · homogeneity · filter bubble · conformity
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