on-again-off-again

Flickering like candlelight

On-again-off-again describes something that repeatedly starts and stops, especially a romantic relationship that cycles through breakups and reconciliations: Their on-again-off-again relationship lasted five years.

The phrase also applies to negotiations, projects, or anything intermittent: The on-again-off-again peace talks finally collapsed.

Also spelled on-again, off-again.

cyclical

intermittent

Occurring at irregular intervals

unpredictable · erratic · irregular · periodic · wavering · unstable · fitful · episodic · variable · discontinuous

romantic

relationship

Connection between entities

  • coupleTwo linked together
  • datingPursuing romantic connections
  • breakupRomantic relationship's termination

reconciliation · ex · reunited · separation · lovers · tumultuous · drama · chemistry · passion · toxic

negotiations

talks

Speaks with others

impasse · breakthrough · diplomacy · ceasefire · treaty · mediator · bargaining · walkout · compromise · collapse

Opposites
consistency/stability

on-again-off-againconstant

Fixed, unvarying quantity

steady · stable · consistent · continuous · unwavering

commitment/reliability

on-again-off-againcommitted

Firmly pledged or bound

dedicated · devoted · steadfast · loyal · reliable

Family

again

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G