no ma'am

Respectful feminine negative

No ma'am is a polite negative response to a woman, the feminine counterpart of "no sir." It's standard in Southern American English and military contexts, where addressing elders or superiors with yes ma'am and no ma'am signals respect.

Outside these contexts, it can sound overly formal or old-fashioned: No ma'am, I haven't seen your dog.

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Opposites
polite affirmative vs. negative response

no ma'amyes ma'am

Formal feminine affirmative

yes'm · yes · affirmative · yes indeed · will do

gendered address form

no ma'amno sir

Polite formal rejection

yes sir

Family

no, ma'am, madam, madame, dame, noes

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Known to kids · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G