modestness

Lack of boastfulness

Modestness is the quality of being modest—unassuming, humble, or moderate in self-estimation.

The word is rarely used; modesty serves the same purpose and sounds more natural: Her modesty about her achievements rather than her modestness.

When modestness does appear, it typically describes restraint or lack of pretension.

humility

humbleness

State of being unpretentious

lowliness · unassumingness · down-to-earth · simplicity · genuineness · sincerity · deference · respectfulness · docility · submissiveness

restraint

self-control

Ability to restrain impulses

sobriety · self-discipline · continence · abstemiousness · frugality · chastity · propriety · decency · seemliness · circumspection

demeanor

reserve

Supply kept back

reticence · diffidence · coyness · quietness · introversion · gentleness · mildness · unobtrusiveness · retiring · taciturnity

appearance

understated

Deliberately minimized in expression

unembellished · subdued · tasteful · conservative · unpretentious · unshowy · unfussy · unassuming · austere · minimalist

Opposites
self-regard and self-presentation

modestnessvanity

Excessive pride in oneself

arrogance · conceit · egotism · boastfulness · self-aggrandizement

ambition and aspiration

modestnessambitiousness

Desire for achievement

grandiosity · presumptuousness · audacity · overreaching

display and showiness

modestnessostentation

Vulgar flaunting of means

showiness · flamboyance · flashiness · gaudiness · extravagance

Family

modest, modesty, modestly, immodest, immodesty, immodestly, overmodesty, unmodest

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G