mends fences

Restores damaged bonds

To mend fences is to repair a damaged relationship or restore goodwill after a disagreement.

The image is of neighboring farmers fixing the barrier between their properties—a cooperative act that maintains peace.

After the argument, she spent weeks mending fences with her brother.

The politician flew home to mend fences with local leaders.

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mediation · harmony · rapprochement · understanding · bridge-building · olive branch · conflict resolution · maintenance · fixing · restoration · peacemaking · making amends · forgiveness · kiss and make up · repairing · patching · bury the hatchet · let bygones be bygones

Opposites
conflict management approach

mends fencesbears a grudge

doubles down · stonewalls · won't let it go

relationship repair vs. relationship damage

mends fencescuts off

Severs or interrupts

alienates · estranges · turns against · betrays · backstabs

Family

mend, mends, mended, mending, mendable, fence, fences, fenced, fencing

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