march to one's own drummer

Ignores social expectations

To march to one's own drummer is to act according to one's own beliefs or inclinations rather than following convention or popular opinion.

The phrase suggests independence of thought and willingness to be different: She's always marched to her own drummer—never cared what anyone thought.

Sometimes phrased as march to the beat of a different drummer.

Related

originality · think outside the box · self-possession · eccentricity · authenticity · iconoclasm · Thoreau · self-determination · contrarianism · artistry · individualism · defiance · independence · self-reliance · maverick · lone wolf · wild card · idiosyncrasy

Opposites
conformity vs individualism

march to one's own drummerconform

Behave as expected

follow the crowd · toe the line · fall in line · go with the flow · keep up with the Joneses

independence vs dependence on others' opinions

march to one's own drummerfollow orders

kowtow · follow the leader

originality vs. imitation

march to one's own drummerfollow in someone's footsteps

Pursue another's career path

imitate · jump on the bandwagon

Family

marched, marching, marches, marcher, marchers, owners, ownership, drummed, drumming

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Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G