making oneself at home

Acting like family

Making oneself at home is settling into an unfamiliar place as comfortably as if it were your own.

A host might invite guests to help themselves to food or drink: Please, make yourself at home.

The phrase can carry ironic edge when someone takes liberties without invitation: He just walked in and made himself at home, feet on the coffee table and all.

Related

putting feet up · cozy · getting comfy · settling · settling in · welcoming · grounding · home away from home · embracing · blending · unwinding · trusting · adapting · unpacking · snuggling · bonding · breaking the ice · relaxing

Opposites
comfort and ease of behavior

making oneself at homestanding on ceremony

Insisting on formalities

walking on eggshells · holding back · kowtowing · toeing the line

sense of belonging

making oneself at homeintruding

Entering without welcome

spatial assertiveness

making oneself at homekeeping to oneself

Staying socially isolated

asking permission · tiptoeing around

Family

making, makes, makers, remake, remaking, homing, homely

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G