made oneself at home

Relaxed like family

Made oneself at home means to settle in comfortably, behaving as relaxed and familiar as one would in one's own dwelling.

A host might invite a guest to make themselves at home, encouraging them to feel welcome rather than stiff or formal: She made herself at home, kicking off her shoes and raiding the fridge.

The phrase can carry a critical edge when someone takes liberties without invitation: He just made himself at home and started going through my drawers.

Related

warm welcome · putting feet up · welcoming · inhabiting · relaxation · ease · taking it easy · inviting · open invitation · coziness · acclimation · nesting · casualness · informality · belonging · unpacking · occupying · adapting

Opposites
comfort and ease

made oneself at homestood on ceremony

Insisted on formal etiquette

held back · kept to oneself

social appropriateness

made oneself at hometook over

Gained control of

imposed · overstepped

social propriety

made oneself at homestayed in one's lane

Avoided interfering elsewhere

Family

makers, unmade, remade, oneself, selves, selfhood, selfish, selfless, homely

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G