losing one's temper

Flying off handle

Losing one's temper is suddenly giving way to anger, abandoning composure or self-control.

The phrase treats temper as something kept or maintained—when lost, the restraint disappears: She lost her temper and said things she regretted.

The expression implies a lapse rather than a character trait, suggesting the anger was unintended or regrettable.

Related

slamming · anger · snapping · short fuse · frustration · cursing · heated argument · rage · blow up · fury · wrath · blood boiling · stomping · storming out · seeing red · flying off the handle · regret · exasperation

Opposites
emotional control

losing one's temperkeeping one's cool

Staying composed when provoked

biting one's tongue · counting to ten · self-control · taking it in stride · rolling with the punches

emotional state

losing one's temperequanimity

Unshakable mental steadiness

serenity · composure · sangfroid · imperturbability · coolheadedness

Family

lose, loser, losers, loses, lost, loss, losses, ones, temper

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G