lose my temper

Fly off handle

To lose your temper is to become angry, often suddenly and visibly.

The phrase suggests a failure of self-control—temper here refers to one's composure or emotional equilibrium, which is "lost" when anger takes over.

I lost my temper and said things I regret.

The expression implies the anger was disproportionate or regrettable, distinguishing it from justified indignation.

Related

snapping · flip out · conflict · heated argument · cursing · frustration · provocation · rage · blow up · blow a gasket · wrath · throwing · meltdown · boiling point · short fuse · see red · irritation · fly off the handle

Opposites
emotional control

lose my temperstay calm

Remain unruffled

keep it together · turn the other cheek · let it go · shrug it off · de-escalate

emotional valence/response

lose my temperlaugh it off

Family

lose, loser, losers, loses, losing, lost, losses, temper, tempers

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G