lavender marriage

Concealment through matrimony

A lavender marriage is a marriage between a man and a woman where one or both partners are gay, entered into to conceal their homosexuality.

Common when being openly gay carried severe social or legal consequences: Rock Hudson's lavender marriage protected his Hollywood career.

The lavender comes from the color's long association with homosexuality.

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secret relationship · double life · connubial · cohabitation · alternative lifestyle · passing · public image · star system · conformity · social pressure · civil rights movement · coming out · gay liberation · anniversary · discrimination · heterosexism · vows · dowry

Opposites
authenticity of romantic/sexual attraction

lavender marriagelove match

Marriage for passion, not practicality

love marriage · true love · arranged marriage

openness about sexual identity

lavender marriagesame-sex marriage

Wedlock between like genders

gay marriage · civil union · domestic partnership

purpose and motivation

lavender marriagemarriage of convenience

Union for practical gain

arranged marriage · shotgun wedding · green card marriage · dynastic marriage

Family

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