hold one's tongue

Bite your lip

To hold one's tongue is to refrain from speaking, especially when tempted to say something inappropriate, angry, or indiscreet: I wanted to argue back but held my tongue.

The phrase implies deliberate restraint—biting back words that might cause trouble.

She held her tongue until the meeting ended, then let him have it.

Related

sealed lips · quiet · patience · hush · mute · discretion · bite · reticence · forbearance · self-control · think twice · tact · politeness · taciturnity · say nothing · silence · temperance · secret

Opposites
verbal restraint vs. expression

hold one's tonguespeak out

Express opinions openly

speak up · blurt out · speak one's mind · sound off · say one's piece

discretion vs. indiscretion

hold one's tonguespill the beans

Reveal confidential information

let the cat out of the bag · blab · tattle · let slip · gossip

Family

hold, tongue, holder, holding, holds, holders

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G