grasping the nettle

Tackling unpleasant tasks

Grasping the nettle means confronting a difficult or unpleasant situation directly rather than avoiding it.

Nettles sting when touched lightly but cause less pain when gripped firmly—hence the metaphor for bold action: She finally grasped the nettle and told him the marriage was over.

Mostly British usage.

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hard choices · tough call · choice · valor · fearlessness · overcoming · daring · grit · stiff upper lip · audacity · taking the plunge · steadfastness · commitment · deliberation · toughness · strategy · confrontation · adaptation

Opposites
confrontation vs avoidance

grasping the nettleburying one's head in the sand

Ignoring obvious problems deliberately

sidestepping · ducking · evading · turning a blind eye · sweeping under the rug

decisiveness vs hesitation

grasping the nettleprocrastinating

Postponing what needs doing

dithering · postponing · delaying · dragging one's feet · foot-dragging

courage vs timidity

grasping the nettlechickening out

Withdrawing from cowardice

getting cold feet · balking · shrinking back · cowering · flinching

Family

grasp, grasps, grasped, grasping, nettle, nettles, nettled, nettling

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