going at it

In heated conflict

Going at it describes vigorous, sustained activity—often fighting or having sex.

Two people going at it might be trading punches or trading insults, or they might be in bed together.

Context usually makes clear which: The neighbors were going at it again could mean either a loud argument or loud sex.

The phrase can also describe intense effort at any task: She was really going at it with that paintbrush.

conflict

arguing

Verbal conflict between parties

clashing · disputing · feuding · sparring · squabbling · confrontation · heated · shouting · yelling · screaming

vigorous

energetic

Having much vigor

zealous · fervent · passionate · fiery · aggressive · full tilt · hammer and tongs · all out · enthusiastic · dynamic

persistent

persevering

Maintaining effort despite difficulty

unwavering · steadfast · determined · dedicated · committed · tireless · indefatigable · unrelenting · single-minded · resolute

sexual

intimate

Closely personal or private

physical · steamy · hookup · coupling · amorous · carnal · lustful · sensual · torrid · affair

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Opposites
conflict/aggression

going at itmaking peace

Ending hostilities between parties

making up · reconciling · getting along · agreeing · burying the hatchet

sexual activity

going at itabstaining

Voluntarily doing without

refraining · holding back · holding off

Family

gone, going, outgoing, ongoing, undergoing, foregoing, go at

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13