go off on

Angrily lash out

To go off on someone is to suddenly unleash anger or criticism at them, often at length: She went off on him for leaving the dishes in the sink.

The phrase suggests an outburst—losing composure and letting someone have it.

Less commonly, to go off on a topic is to speak about it at passionate length, veering away from the main conversation: He went off on a tangent about conspiracy theories.

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berate · verbal assault · unleash · yell · scream · snap · blow up · lecture · harangue · tangent · outburst · fury · venting · rampage · unload · tear into · lose it · lose your cool

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Opposites
emotional intensity/restraint

go off onkeep one's cool

Maintain emotional control

stay calm · hold it together

verbal aggression vs. verbal gentleness

go off oncompliment

Words expressing approval

praise · reassure · soothe · encourage · build up

engagement vs. disengagement

go off onlet it go

Cease fixating on something

walk away · hold one's tongue · bite one's tongue · say nothing · ignore

Family

off, going, gone, undergone, ongoing, offs, offing

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Known to kids · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG