getting someone's goat

Deliberately causing frustration

Getting someone's goat is irritating or annoying them, provoking frustration: Don't let him get your goat—he's just trying to rile you up.

The expression suggests someone has found and exploited a vulnerability.

Often appears as get your goat or got my goat.

Related

ruffling feathers · aggravation · annoyance · frustration · grinding gears · exasperation · pique · perturbation · needling · taunting · mocking · antagonizing · vexation · pestering · ribbing · fuming · confronting · retaliating

Opposites
emotional effect on another person

getting someone's goattaking the edge off

Reducing harshness slightly

social harmony

getting someone's goatmaking peace

Ending hostilities between parties

burying the hatchet · pouring oil on troubled waters · building bridges · making amends · mending fences

Family

gotten, getting, someone, goatee, goateed

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G