gentleman's code

Chivalric behavioral standards

A gentleman's code is an unwritten set of principles governing honorable behavior among men—loyalty, discretion, keeping one's word, and treating others with respect.

The phrase implies standards that exist outside formal rules: He violated the gentleman's code by pursuing his friend's ex.

Sometimes invoked ironically or to justify questionable male solidarity: The gentleman's code says you don't snitch.

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kindness · decorum · good form · integrity · fairness · fair play · trustworthiness · handshake deal · selflessness · accountability · discretion · tact · gallantry · Renaissance humanism · propriety · noblesse oblige · loyalty · generosity

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formality of rules

gentleman's codewritten law

Enacted and recorded legislation

legislation · criminal code · statute · statutory law · legal code

moral character

gentleman's codeanything goes

No restrictions apply

law of the jungle · ruthlessness · win at all costs · dirty tricks · bad faith

transparency of conduct

gentleman's codeMachiavellianism

Cunning, amoral statecraft

backstabbing · duplicity · treachery · double-dealing · deception

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G