former lover

Past romantic partner

A former lover is someone with whom one previously had a romantic or sexual relationship.

The phrase implies intimacy beyond casual dating—you wouldn't typically call someone you went on two dates with a former lover.

It sounds slightly formal or literary; *ex* serves the same purpose in casual speech: I ran into a former lover at the grocery store.

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photograph · letters · nostalgia · longing · the one that got away · breakup · carrying a torch · flame · sweetheart · goodbye · regret · burnt bridges · closure · unfinished business · ghost · past · affair · romance

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temporal relationship status

former loversteady

Fixed, not fluctuating

spouse · significant other · boyfriend · girlfriend · life partner

emotional intimacy spectrum

former loverstranger

Person not yet known

complete stranger · acquaintance · casual acquaintance · coworker · neighbor

relationship type

former loversoulmate

Deeply compatible life partner

spouse · enemy · nemesis

Family

former, lover, form, love, formerly, loved, loving, lovingly, lovable

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG