forgave and forgot

Released the grudge

Forgave and forgot is the past tense of forgive and forget, meaning to pardon an offense and stop dwelling on it: After their long talk, she forgave and forgot.

The phrase suggests complete reconciliation—not just excusing the wrong but releasing resentment entirely.

Often used skeptically, since forgetting proves harder than forgiving: He says he's forgave and forgot, but I don't believe it.

Related

turn the page · moving on · closure · hug · bygones · grace · absolution · no hard feelings · let it go · acceptance · amends · healing · catharsis · transcendence · tolerance · mercy · water under the bridge · redemption

Opposites
emotional response to wrongdoing

forgave and forgotretaliated

Responded with equal force

punished · condemned · resented · excommunicated · shunned

memory and attention to grievance

forgave and forgotruminated

Thought deeply about

brooded

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G