false humility

Insincere self-deprecation act

False humility is modesty that conceals pride—a performance of self-deprecation that actually seeks praise or attention.

Someone displaying false humility might dismiss their accomplishments while fishing for compliments, or ostentatiously refuse credit they clearly want: His "oh, it was nothing" was false humility—he'd been angling for recognition all week.

The phrase often describes people who downplay success in ways that paradoxically highlight it.

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coy · pretense · meek · undeserving · deflecting · praise · virtue-signaling · sanctimonious · pious · affected · disingenuous · performative · bashful · unworthy · martyr · doormat · sycophant · obsequious

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Opposites
authenticity of self-presentation

false humilityunpretentious

Lacking false superiority

unaffected · guileless · self-aware · straightforwardness · candor

directional distortion of self-assessment

false humilitybragging

Excessive self-praise

boasting · arrogance · self-aggrandizement · hubris · vanity

social virtue vs. vice

false humilitymeekness

Gentle, unassertive disposition

unpretentiousness · self-awareness · groundedness · honesty · integrity

Family

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