driving at

Hinting at obliquely

When you ask what someone is driving at, you're asking what point they're trying to make or what they really mean.

The phrase suggests that someone's words are heading toward a conclusion they haven't yet stated directly.

I could tell she was driving at something, but she wouldn't just come out and say it.

It's most common in questions: What are you driving at?

Related

what you mean · trying to say · aiming · inferring · indicating · leading up to · pursuing · targeting · intimating · directing · guiding · insinuating · beating around · proposing · focusing · deducing · advancing · reasoning

Opposites
directness of communication

driving atspelling out

Stating something explicitly

cutting to the chase · getting to the point · announcing · proclaiming · asserting

communicative action vs. inaction

driving atconcealing

Keeping something secret

hiding · withholding · suppressing · saying nothing · evading

Family

drive, drives, drove, driven, driver, drivers, driving, driveway, driveways

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G