getting at

Trying to convey

Getting at has several related senses.

To get at something is to reach or access it: The wiring is hard to get at behind the wall.

To get at the truth is to discover it.

When you ask what someone is getting at, you're asking what point they're trying to make: I'm not sure what you're getting at.

To get at someone (British) is to criticize or nag them repeatedly.

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trying to say · referring · hinting · indicate · discern · meaning · insinuate · needling · picking on · uncover · allude · irritating · penetrate · signifying · expressing · infer · comprehend · interpret

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Opposites
directness of communication

getting atspelling out

Stating something explicitly

cutting to the chase · speaking frankly · declaring · laying it out · telling it like it is

reaching/accessing

getting atavoiding

Deliberately staying clear

keeping away from · leaving alone · inaccessible · out of reach

criticism/targeting

getting atleaving alone

Ceasing to disturb

praising · supporting · encouraging · accepting · laying off

Family

get, getting, gotten, gets, getter

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G