dancing to someone's tune

Following another's commands

To dance to someone's tune is to do what they want, to act according to their wishes or commands.

The image is of a puppet or performer whose movements are controlled by whoever provides the music.

The phrase usually implies subordination or lack of independence: After the merger, the whole department was dancing to the new CEO's tune.

Related

servitude · compliance · toeing the line · falling in line · dominance · submission · blind obedience · manipulation · coercion · dependency · influence · sycophancy · pressure · puppet · command · subjugation · hierarchy · suggestion

Opposites
autonomy and control

dancing to someone's tunecalling the shots

Being the one deciding

doing one's own thing · self-directed · independent · autonomous · going one's own way

power dynamics

dancing to someone's tunecalling the shots

Being the one deciding

pulling the strings · running the show · wearing the pants · holding the reins · laying down the law

Family

danced, dancer, dancers, dances, someone

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G