holding the reins

Directing the horse

Holding the reins means being in control or command of something.

The image comes from horseback riding, where the person gripping the reins directs the animal.

In figurative use, it describes whoever has authority over a situation, organization, or process: She's been holding the reins at the company since her father retired.

To take the reins is to assume control; to hand over the reins is to transfer it.

Related

tight grip · pulling the strings · calling the shots · direction · command · at the helm · management · steering · stewardship · power · disciplining · back seat · authority · restraint · governance · driver's seat · dominance · iron fist

Opposites
control and leadership

holding the reinstaking a back seat

Accepting a subordinate role

toeing the line · kowtowing

agency and initiative

holding the reinsgoing with the flow

Accepting situations without resistance

drifting · going along for the ride · passive · reactive · hands-off

control and authority

holding the reinstaking orders

Acting on commands

subordinate · at someone's beck and call · answering to · along for the ride · powerless

Family

hold, holding, holds, holder, holders, holdout, holdover, behold, beholden

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G