twist the knife

Deepen the wound

To twist the knife is to deliberately worsen someone's emotional pain, especially after already causing hurt.

The image is of a stabber not just wounding but rotating the blade to inflict maximum damage.

Someone twists the knife by bringing up painful details unnecessarily or rubbing in a humiliation: After firing him, she twisted the knife by mentioning his replacement was twenty years younger.

Opposites
emotional treatment of someone in pain

twist the knifesoothe

Gently ease discomfort

console · comfort · show mercy · be gentle · soften the blow

social response to another's misfortune

twist the knifelet it go

Cease fixating on something

turn the other cheek · forgive and forget · bite one's tongue · give someone a break · cut someone slack

Family

twist, twists, twisted, twisting, twister, twisters, knife, knives, knifed

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG