chatting up

Pursuing through talk

Chatting up is flirtatious conversation aimed at sparking romantic or sexual interest: He spent the evening chatting up women at the bar.

The phrase is more common in British than American English.

It can also mean talking to someone in a friendly, persuasive way to gain favor or information: She was chatting up the doorman to get inside.

Related

charm · seduction · hitting on · grin · wink · come-on · first move · breaking the ice · pickup lines · conversation · attractive · wooing · pick up · pulling · liquid courage · Dutch courage · eye contact · sweet-talking

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Opposites
social engagement/attention

chatting upignoring

Deliberately not noticing

snubbing · blanking · shunning · brushing off · avoiding

romantic/flirtatious intent

chatting uprejecting

Refusing to accept

turning down · shooting down · rebuffing · blowing off · spurning

communication style

chatting upinsulting

Showing contempt through words

putting down · dissing · tearing down · shutting out · clamming up

Family

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Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G