hitting on

Trying to charm

Hitting on someone is making romantic or sexual advances, typically through flirtatious conversation: He was hitting on her at the bar all night.

The phrase implies directness that may or may not be welcome—being hit on can feel flattering or intrusive depending on context and execution.

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sliding into DMs · sleazy · cheesy lines · dating · infatuation · rejection · creepy · unwanted advances · complimenting · unwanted attention · taking a hint · romance · pickup lines · awkwardness · body language · approaching · charm · attraction

Opposites
romantic/sexual intent

hitting onfriendzoning

Rejecting romance, keeping friendship

friendly chat · networking · shooting the breeze

approach vs. withdrawal

hitting onrejecting

Refusing to accept

turning down · brushing off · rebuffing · spurning · shutting down

aggressor vs. recipient role

hitting onbeing chased

Actively followed by pursuer

Family

hit, hitting, hits, hitman, hitter, hitmen, hitters, hitless, outhit

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG