blinking first

Losing the staredown

Blinking first means yielding in a standoff or confrontation, backing down before your opponent does.

The phrase comes from staring contests, where the first to blink loses.

In negotiations, diplomacy, or any test of resolve, the one who blinks first shows weakness or concedes: Neither side wanted to blink first in the trade dispute.

The union blinked first and accepted the offer.

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hesitation · strategy · bluffing · yield · reputation · fear · victory · concession · flinch · losing nerve · self-doubt · microexpressions · poker face · pride · power struggle · capitulation · stare · anxiety

Opposites
resolve in confrontation

blinking firstholding firm

Maintaining position resolutely

standing one's ground · holding out · digging in · staring down · outlasting

strategic positioning

blinking firstholding all the cards

Having every advantage

outwaiting

Family

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