blink first

Lose the standoff

To blink first is to lose one's nerve in a standoff, backing down before the other party does.

The image comes from staring contests, where the first to blink loses.

In negotiations, confrontations, or games of chicken, whoever blinks first concedes: Neither side wants to blink first in the budget standoff.

The union blinked first and accepted the contract.

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lose your nerve · brinkmanship · negotiation · waver · cave in · back down · twitch · surrender · startle · give ground · ultimatum · hesitate · power struggle · chicken out · intimidation · tremble · escalation · freeze

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Opposites
resolve and steadfastness

blink firsthold firm

Maintain one's position

stand one's ground · hold the line · stand firm · stay the course · dig in

competitive outcome

blink firststare down

Defeat by sustained gaze

outlast · prevail · come out on top · wait out · hold all the cards

Family

blink, first, blinks, blinked, blinking, blinker, blinkers, firstly

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G