be bothered

Give a damn

To be bothered is to take the trouble or make the effort to do something, almost always in negative constructions: I can't be bothered to cook tonight, He couldn't be bothered to reply.

The phrase implies that something isn't worth the effort or that someone lacks sufficient motivation.

More common in British than American English.

annoyed

irritated

Slightly angered or bothered

peeved · vexed · irked · displeased · troubled · disturbed · disgruntled · nettled · provoked · ruffled

effort

trouble

Difficulty or distress

try · energy · hassle · inconvenience · pains · time · fuss · work · struggle · initiative

willing

inclined

Tending toward, tilted

moved · stirred · engaged · invested · committed · enthusiastic · eager · determined · driven · inspired

Opposites
motivation/effort

be botheredcan't be bothered

Unwilling to make effort

not give a damn · neglect · shirk · turn a blind eye · do nothing

emotional engagement

be botheredtune out

Deliberately stop attending

not give a hoot

Family

bother, bothered, bothering, bothers, bothersome, unbothered

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