at a loss for words

Unable to respond

At a loss for words describes being unable to speak, usually because of strong emotion or surprise.

Someone at a loss for words may be stunned by unexpected news, overwhelmed by gratitude, or simply caught off guard: When she saw the surprise party, she was completely at a loss for words.

The phrase often implies the situation has rendered normal responses inadequate.

Related

gobsmacked · brain fog · lost in thought · at a standstill · disbelief · confusion · amazement · dumbfounded · struck dumb · embarrassment · flabbergasted · deer in headlights · taken aback · caught off guard · stammering · grief · draw a blank · agape

Categories
Opposites
verbal fluency/expressiveness

at a loss for wordseloquent

Fluent and persuasive

articulate · verbose · well-spoken · loquacious · silver-tongued

emotional composure during communication

at a loss for wordscomposed

Calm and self-possessed

unflappable · quick-witted · unfazed · quick on one's feet · cool as a cucumber

Family

loss, words, loser, losers, losses, word, worded, wording, wordy

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G