airing one's dirty laundry in public

Broadcasting private scandals

Airing one's dirty laundry in public means revealing private matters—especially embarrassing, shameful, or unflattering ones—to people outside one's immediate circle.

The metaphor likens personal secrets to soiled clothing that should be washed discreetly at home rather than hung outside for neighbors to see.

The phrase typically carries disapproval, suggesting that such revelations are inappropriate or self-destructive.

After the divorce, she aired their dirty laundry in public with a tell-all interview.

Related

taboos · family secrets · shame · reputation · tactlessness · transparency · privacy · honor culture · tell-all · betrayal · confession · open book · judgment · broadcasting · social media rant · family dynamics · defensiveness · trust

Opposites
privacy vs. public disclosure

airing one's dirty laundry in publicdiscretion

Careful judgment in speech

keeping one's own counsel · keeping mum · keeping secrets · suffering in silence · tight-lipped

social appropriateness

airing one's dirty laundry in publicdiscretion

Careful judgment in speech

propriety · decorum · tact · dignity · restraint

disclosure vs. concealment

airing one's dirty laundry in publickeeping mum

Staying deliberately silent

keeping one's own counsel · covering up · suffering in silence · stonewalling · clamming up

Family

airiness, dirtiness, laundry, launder, laundered, laundering, launderer, laundress, public

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG