adding fuel to the fire

Making things worse

Adding fuel to the fire is making a bad situation worse by saying or doing something that intensifies conflict, anger, or tension.

Just as literal fire grows when fed more fuel, disputes and problems escalate when provoked: His sarcastic apology only added fuel to the fire.

Also appears as adding fuel to the flames.

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make matters worse · incitement · provoke · inflame · conflict · blaze · aggravate · exacerbate · stoke · instigation · pick a fight · throwing shade · spark · flare-up · stir the pot · worsen · fan the flames · baiting

Opposites
conflict escalation vs de-escalation

adding fuel to the firecalming down

Becoming less agitated

de-escalating · keeping the peace · lowering the temperature · tamping down · stepping back

provocation vs pacification

adding fuel to the firepouring oil on troubled waters

Calming a dispute

making peace · calming down · soothing · pacifying · building bridges

exacerbation vs resolution

adding fuel to the fireburying the hatchet

Ending hostilities permanently

mending fences · clearing the air · finding common ground

Family

adding, addition, additional, additionally, additive, fueled, fueling, refuel, refueling

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G