yes'm

Respectful Southern affirmative

Yes'm is a contracted form of "yes, ma'am," used as a respectful affirmative response to a woman.

The word carries strong associations with Southern American speech and historical servant-employer relationships: Yes'm, I'll fetch it right away.

It can sound either genuinely deferential or performatively submissive depending on context.

southern

y'all

Informal plural you

  • howdyInformal rural greeting
  • ma'amPolite term for women
  • sirFormal male address

southern hospitality · sweet tea · porch · drawl · dialect · plantation · antebellum · domestic service · household staff · Gone with the Wind

deference

ma'am

Polite term for women

acknowledgment · politeness · formality · compliance · obedience · manners · etiquette · graciousness · civility · propriety

Opposites
affirmation vs refusal

yes'mno ma'am

Polite negative to women

no · nope · I refuse · never · I can't

deference vs defiance

yes'mno ma'am

Polite negative to women

make me · I refuse · over my dead body · forget it · no way

respectful vs disrespectful address

yes'mwhatever

Expression of apathy

yeah right · as if · who cares · pfft · yeah

Phrases
Family

yes

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Mostly American · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G