wits' end

Out of ideas

At your wits' end, you've exhausted your mental resources and don't know what to do next: I've tried everything—I'm at my wits' end with this kid.

The phrase captures that moment when patience, ideas, and coping strategies have all run out.

Almost always appears with "at" and a possessive pronoun.

Related

anxiety · nervous breakdown · analysis paralysis · banging head against wall · bewilderment · pleading · at a loss · indecision · helplessness · venting · hopelessness · breaking point · final straw · confrontation · pulling teeth · brainstorming · argument · panic

Opposites
mental composure and resourcefulness

wits' endcollected

Calm and self-possessed

at ease · resourceful · equanimity · in one's element · serenity

problem-solving capacity

wits' endresourcefulness

Ability to solve problems creatively

in control · clear-headed · quick-witted · sharp · mastery

emotional equilibrium

wits' endserenity

Undisturbed mental quietude

peace of mind · equanimity · tranquility · calmness · composure

Family

wit, wits, witty, wittier, wittiest, wittily, wittiness, witless, witlessly

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G