wears down

Slowly breaks resistance

To wear down is to gradually diminish through persistent pressure or friction.

Physically, water wears down rock over millennia; shoes wear down with use.

More often the phrase describes psychological erosion—persistence breaking resistance: Her constant nagging finally wore him down.

The imagery is of slow, steady attrition rather than sudden defeat.

Related

slow erosion · abrasion · attrition · aging · weathering · undermining · acquiescing · giving in · corrosion · crumbling · surrendering · demoralization · capitulating · grinding · deterioration · softening · weariness · fading

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Opposites
gradual degradation vs. building up

wears downbuilds up

Accumulates gradually

strengthens · reinforces · fortifies · accumulates · bolsters

erosion of resistance vs. fortification of resistance

wears downemboldens

Makes brave enough to act

steels · hardens · galvanizes · encourages · inspires

depletion vs. replenishment

wears downreplenishes

Fills again after depletion

restores · refreshes · rejuvenates · revitalizes · renews

Family

wear, wears, worn, wearing, wearer, wearers, wearable, unwearable, outerwear

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G