unindulgent

Refusing to spoil

Unindulgent describes someone who is strict, austere, or unwilling to grant pleasures or leniencies.

An unindulgent parent refuses to spoil their children or give in to their whims.

The word can also characterize a general attitude of self-denial or restraint, refusing to pamper oneself or others.

Her unindulgent approach to spending meant the family rarely ate out.

austere

spartan

Rigorously simple, unadorned

stark · bare · minimalist · unadorned · monastic · frugal · unembellished · unornamented · severe · bleak

strict

stern

Strict or ship's aft

uncompromising · demanding · severe · tough · stringent · exacting · unbending · inflexible · hard · unforgiving

self-denial

temperance

Habitual moderation in behavior

asceticism · frugality · continence · abnegation · willpower · restraint · sobriety · self-discipline · renunciation · austerity

disciplinary

firm

Solid or resolute

boundaries · consequences · disciplinarian · structure · expectations · standards · no-nonsense · principled · regulated · regimented

Opposites
permissiveness/leniency

unindulgentindulgent

Too willing to yield

permissive · lenient · tolerant · soft · easygoing

self-denial vs. self-gratification

unindulgentself-indulgent

Yielding to one's desires

indulgent · hedonistic · sybaritic · pleasure-seeking · decadent

Family

unindulged

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