tough exteriors

Armor-like outer layers

A tough exterior is an outward appearance of emotional hardness or resilience that may conceal vulnerability underneath.

The phrase typically appears in observations about people who seem intimidating or cold but are actually sensitive: Behind that tough exterior, she's really quite tenderhearted.

The implication is usually that the toughness is protective rather than genuine.

Related

calloused · weathered · rugged · gruff · stoic · stone cold · guarded · defensive · thick-skinned · crusty · bristly · rough · rough around the edges · leathery · scarred · resilient · bark · hide

Opposites
surface hardness/texture

tough exteriorssoft surfaces

Yielding, non-rigid materials

soft skin

emotional presentation/persona

tough exteriorsvulnerability

Openness to harm

sensitivity · emotional availability · softness · tenderness · warmth

penetrability/accessibility

tough exteriorsopen doors

Unblocked entrances

easy access · permeability · porousness

Family

tough, toughs, tougher, toughest, toughly, toughness, toughen, toughened, toughening

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G