take aback

Jolt with surprise

To take aback is to surprise or disconcert someone, usually unpleasantly: I was taken aback by her rudeness.

The phrase appears almost exclusively in the passive.

The expression comes from sailing, where a ship is taken aback when wind hits the sails from the wrong side, stopping forward motion—a fitting image for being caught off guard.

disconcert

unsettled

Not yet resolved

thrown off · nonplussed · perturbed · ruffled · unnerved · disquieted · discombobulated · off-balance · wrong-footed · disoriented

surprise

astonished

Greatly shocked, overwhelmed

  • startledAbruptly surprised or alarmed
  • stunnedShocked into speechlessness
  • amazedOverwhelmed by sudden wonder

astounded · flabbergasted · dumbfounded · gobsmacked · thunderstruck · stupefied · agog · awestruck · blindsided · caught off guard

shock

appalled

Shocked by wrongness

dismayed · shell-shocked · reeling · scandalized · outraged · affronted · offended · revolted · stricken · distressed

Opposites
expectation and surprise

take abackexpect

Consider likely to occur

anticipate · see coming · forewarn · come as no surprise · prepare

emotional composure

take abackreassure

Ease someone's doubts

put at ease · calm · settle · soothe · comfort

Family

back, take, taken, taking, overtake, takes, undertake, taken aback, aback

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G