take a toll

Wear someone down

To take a toll is to cause gradual damage, strain, or depletion over time.

The phrase comes from the fee charged for passage—something is extracted as the cost of continuing: Years of stress had taken a toll on her health.

The toll may be physical, emotional, or financial: The scandal took its toll on his reputation.

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fatigue · impact · harm · affect · drag · ache · attrition · hardship · grind down · run down · ravages · stress · long hours · exhaustion · consequences · erosion · deterioration · burnout

Opposites
cumulative harm vs. benefit

take a tollpay dividends

Produce worthwhile returns later

bear fruit · work wonders

gradual damage vs. preservation

take a tollpreserve

Protect from loss

protect · safeguard · spare · pay dividends · do no harm

draining vs. replenishing

take a tollrejuvenate

Restore youthful vigor

restore · replenish · revitalize · reinvigorate · heal

Family

take, takes, taken, taking, taker, takers, toll, tolls, tolled

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G