strike a nerve

Touch raw spot

To strike a nerve is to touch on something that provokes a strong emotional reaction, usually because it hits close to a sensitive truth or personal vulnerability: I must have struck a nerve when I mentioned her ex.

The image is of accidentally hitting an exposed nerve, causing unexpected pain.

Also touch a nerve, hit a nerve.

emotional-trigger

provoke

Incite a response

upset · anger · infuriate · disturb · perturb · rile · incense · enrage · irk · vex

resonance

relatable

Easy to identify with

ring true · resonate · connect · visceral · gut reaction · emotional response · identify · empathy · mirror · reflect

sensitivity

touchy

Easily upset or offended

exposed · tender · painful · personal · defensive · guarded · prickly · thin-skinned · reactive · hypersensitive

controversy

polarize

Split into opposition

inflammatory · backlash · outrage · heated · debate · clash · friction · pushback · uproar · firestorm

Opposites
emotional impact

strike a nervesoothe

Gently ease discomfort

calm · reassure · put at ease · comfort · pacify

resonance with personal sensitivities

strike a nervefall flat

Fail to impress

miss the mark · leave someone cold · go in one ear and out the other · go over someone's head · bounce off

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G