sticks and stones

Primitive throwing weapons

Sticks and stones is the opening of a children's rhyme that continues "may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." The phrase is invoked as a dismissive response to verbal insults or criticism, asserting that physical harm is real but name-calling is powerless.

She replied with a shrug: sticks and stones.

The sentiment is widely recognized as wishful thinking—words do hurt—but the expression persists as a way of brushing off verbal attacks.

Related

perseverance · stoicism · inner strength · emotional resilience · turn the other cheek · bury the hatchet · determination · forgive and forget · courage · resolve · grit · composure · rhyme · taunt · childhood · playground taunts · pebble · branch

Opposites
type of harm

sticks and stoneswords

Units of language

names · insults · verbal abuse · harsh words · slurs

materiality

sticks and stoneswords

Units of language

ideas · thoughts · feelings · language · speech

sophistication of weapons/tools

sticks and stonesfirearms

Weapons using explosive propulsion

missiles · nuclear weapons · drones · artillery · tanks

Family

stick, sticks, stuck, sticking, sticker, stickers, sticky, stickiness, stone

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G