secret engagement

Private marriage promise

A secret engagement is a private agreement to marry that the couple keeps hidden from others—typically from family, the public, or specific individuals who might disapprove.

The secrecy often stems from social obstacles: class differences, family opposition, or timing concerns.

They maintained a secret engagement for two years until she finished medical school.

The phrase also applies to clandestine military operations or covert meetings, though the romantic sense predominates.

Opposites
publicity/disclosure

secret engagementpublic announcement

Official communication to all

public engagement · engagement party · formal announcement

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G