secret crush

Unconfessed romantic interest

A secret crush is romantic attraction you haven't revealed to anyone, especially not to the person you're attracted to.

The secrecy may be protective—fear of rejection, social complications, or simply enjoying the private thrill: She had a secret crush on her coworker for months.

The phrase implies both the intensity of infatuation and the deliberate concealment of it.

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disclosure/publicity

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Consensual romantic nonexclusivity

Facebook official · out in the open · public display of affection · going steady · going public

relationship formality/status

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Married partner

husband · wife · fiancé · fiancée · marriage

emotional intensity/seriousness

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Previous romantic partner

sworn enemy · stranger · bitter rival

Family

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