saying the quiet part loud

Unfiltered thought escapes

Saying the quiet part loud means accidentally or deliberately voicing something usually kept unspoken—an impolitic truth, hidden motive, or socially unacceptable opinion that people normally only think or say in private.

The phrase often describes political gaffes where someone reveals what their side actually believes: He said the quiet part loud when he admitted the bill was really about suppressing votes.

Sometimes rendered as saying the quiet part out loud.

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elephant in the room · euphemism · transparency · candor · bluntness · irony · implicit bias · reading between lines · truth-telling · tactlessness · inside voice · dog whistle politics · hidden agenda · implication · social commentary · oversharing · self-awareness · sarcasm

Opposites
discretion and tact

saying the quiet part loudbiting one's tongue

Deliberately not speaking up

keeping mum · discretion · keeping one's counsel · plausible deniability · self-censorship

communication transparency

saying the quiet part louddog whistling

Covert targeted messaging

coded language · plausible deniability · beating around the bush · veiled reference · doublespeak

social performance

saying the quiet part loudplaying the game

Engaging in structured activity

saving face · spin · talking points · party line · polite fiction

Family

saying, sayings, soothsayer, quieter, quietest, quietly, quietness, quietude, quieten

Familiarity
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