rueing

Lamenting past choices

Rueing is feeling regret or sorrow about something, typically a past decision or action.

The word appears most often in the phrase rueing the day: She'll be rueing the day she turned down that offer.

It's the present participle of rue, a somewhat literary verb for remorseful reflection.

regret

regretting

Feeling sorrow over past

mourning · sorrowing · grieving · deploring · agonizing · remorse · hindsight · wishing · second-guessing · self-reproach

loss

mourning

Period following loss

longing · nostalgia · wistfulness · melancholy · heartache · sorrow · absence · departed · gone · forsaken

decision

choice

Act of selecting

lost · squandered · foolish · hasty · rash · impulsive · shortsighted · haste · rashness · folly

Opposites
emotional response to past actions/events

rueingcelebrating

Observing with festivity

rejoicing · savoring · relishing · cherishing · appreciating

Family

rue, rueful, ruefully, ruefulness, rues, rued

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G