rub shoulders

Mix with others

Rub shoulders means to associate or mingle, especially with people of higher status or different backgrounds: She rubbed shoulders with celebrities at the gala.

The image is of being close enough in a crowd that shoulders touch.

Also rub elbows.

The phrase usually implies proximity without deep connection—you're in the same space, not necessarily friends.

Related

rub noses · socialize · schmooze · interact · mingle · break the ice · converse · engage · jostle · roll with · run in circles · high society · contact · network · rub up against · encounter · liaise · hang with

Opposites
social proximity

rub shouldersshun

Deliberately keep away

keep one's distance · avoid · steer clear of · stay away from · keep to oneself

social status mixing

rub shouldersstay in one's lane

Stick to your expertise

keep a low profile

Family

shoulder, rubs, rubbed, rubbing, rubber, shoulders, shouldered, shouldering

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G