put through the wringer

Exhaustively interrogated or stressed

To put someone through the wringer is to subject them to a grueling, exhausting ordeal—an experience that leaves them drained or wrung out.

The image comes from old washing machines with rollers that squeezed water from clothes.

The divorce put her through the wringer.

That job interview really put me through the wringer.

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investigate · under the gun · crucible · third degree · baptism of fire · gauntlet · exhaustion · stress · stress test · difficulty · endurance · trial by fire · trial by ordeal · ordeal · run ragged · fortitude · burnout · wrung out

Opposites
treatment intensity

put through the wringerhandle with kid gloves

Treat very carefully

coddle · pamper · baby · mollycoddle · cushion

emotional/psychological impact

put through the wringerput at ease

Relieve worry or tension

soothe · comfort · reassure · nurture · restore

emotional/physical toll

put through the wringerrefresh

Restore energy or newness

rejuvenate · restore · recharge · revitalize

Family

putting, putter, through, wring, wringer, wrings, wringing

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G