pull oneself up by one's bootstraps

Succeed without help

To pull oneself up by one's bootstraps is to improve one's situation through one's own efforts, without outside help.

The phrase originally described an impossible act—you can't lift yourself by tugging on your own boots—but now typically appears without irony in discussions of self-reliance and economic mobility: He pulled himself up by his bootstraps and built a business empire.

Critics note the phrase often ignores advantages or assistance people actually received.

Related

perseverance · grit · resourcefulness · progress · self-discipline · inner strength · ambition · idiom · meritocracy · rags to riches · self-made · self made man · rugged individualism · fortitude · prosperity · figure of speech · industriousness · self-sufficiency

Opposites
source of success/advancement

pull oneself up by one's bootstrapsborn with a silver spoon in one's mouth

Wealthy from the start

nepotism · trust fund baby · old money · mooch

agency and effort in overcoming hardship

pull oneself up by one's bootstrapsgive up

Stop attempting something

throw in the towel · accept defeat · learned helplessness

ideological framing of success

pull oneself up by one's bootstrapssystemic inequality

Embedded societal unfairness

social safety net · community support · check your privilege · white privilege · class privilege

Family

oneself, bootstrap, bootstraps, bootstrapped, bootstrapping, straps

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Mostly American · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G