pours oil on troubled waters

Smooths things over

Pours oil on troubled waters means to do something that calms a tense or difficult situation: she pours oil on troubled waters by mediating the dispute.

Related

diplomatic solution · reconciliation · clear the air · bury the hatchet · de-escalation · compromise · peacemaking · keep the peace · consensus-building · conflict management · idiom · bridge-building · build bridges · consoling · olive branch · metaphor · reassuring · placating

Opposites
conflict management approach

pours oil on troubled watersfans the flames

Intensifies existing conflict

adds fuel to the fire · pours gasoline on the fire · stirs the pot · makes waves · rocks the boat

emotional temperature of intervention

pours oil on troubled watersturns up the heat

Increases intensity or pressure

throws a spanner in the works

Family

pour, poured, pouring, pours, oil, oils, oiled, oiling, oily

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Top 500,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G